Dr. Matthew Paldy, PhD, LP

The Psychology of Thinking About Gains vs. Losses

People are generally more affected by the fear of loss than by the prospect of making a gain. Some studies suggest that losses are psychologically twice as powerful as gains. Loss aversion means that losing $100 hurts more than winning $100 feels good.

Framing an issue in terms of gain or loss can strongly influence decision-making. In marketing, trial periods and rebates are often used to take advantage of the tendency to value something more once it becomes part of the status quo. Once a product is integrated into daily life, people tend to forget the initial cost and focus instead on its benefits.

Loss aversion is also evident on a larger scale. Nations have gone to war or continued failing strategies due to loss aversion—the reluctance to admit a mistake or accept loss after significant investment of time, money, or identity.

“Once we have committed a lot of time or energy to a cause, it is nearly impossible to convince us that it is unworthy.” — Various sources

We can see that our relationship to perceived gains and losses plays a significant role in psychological functioning. Psychoanalytic psychotherapy can help illuminate these patterns of thinking and lead to greater awareness and life satisfaction.